Well, I know it’s been some time
since I uploaded something new. And by
sometime I mean, A LOT OF TIME! I am sorry for that. Sorry to anyone who reads
my blog! Anyway, I get my blog ideas when I am at the weirdest places. For e.g.
this blog idea came to my mind when I was in the train. And the next blog idea
came to my mind when I was talking to a friend.
So, the main source of this blog was
from the confession page of my college. In there, people just keep talking
nonsense about each other and then there are their friends defending them
saying, “You have no idea how the person is so just keep your mouth shut...”
and so on… So the main topic of this blog post is, ‘People are neither good nor bad. It’s what we judge them, is later
what the society thinks about them, and is lastly who they think they are!’
What defines a person as good or bad?
Is he/she considered as GOOD because
he/she is nice to everyone or very quiet or doesn’t meddle in your affairs or
is he/she considered as BAD because
he/she likes his/her own space and doesn’t want to talk to you which makes you
angry or whether likes to put his/her nose into everyone’s affairs which
irritates you?
Did you realize something? In the
above paragraph, everything had to do with YOU!
It always is how people treat you is what you consider them as. Which is
good. Thinking about yourself is important. But sometimes because someone
doesn’t treat you the way you want to be treated, you consider that person as
bad. The other person doesn’t even have a clue what he/she did you to and is
now considered bad. It can also happen if sometimes things don’t happen your
way. And because of that, you start talking bad about that person! And if you
are a good convincer, then that person’s reputation is gone!
Let me explain what I mean by this
one story,
‘I had this one friend in another college
(Which shall not be named) who wanted to be the CR (Class Representative) and
had some tough competition with him. His very good friend was in that
competition! In the end, he lost and my friend got so angry, that he started
spreading wrong rumors about his own friend! The shocking part was that others
even believed him!
Some of the rumors were, “His mother
knew the Class Teacher and I saw her talking to her the other day!” and so on…
In the end, the CR was hated by everyone and was only approached if anybody
needed some college work to be done from him!’
So do you see how anger eats up a
person that he goes to the extent of destroying the reputation of the other
person? However, anger is not the only reason. Another main reason is, JEALOUSLY.
The main reason why people are jealous
is because someone gets extra attention from others and people can’t stand it
and thus they start talking wrong about them. This leads into useless and false
gossip about the other person and ends up making the target being hated by
everyone else.
See, bro, if you don’t like someone or
someone’s behavior, then you don’t need to go telling about them to everyone.
Just keep it to yourself and shut it. God is there to judge them (Yes, God is
there.) There are going to be tons of bad people in this world, the world is
full of bad people. But since you talk something about that person, everyone
else also does the same. But from the inside, that guy might be a very
different person. Karma rules.
Also, sometimes due to so much
pressure, people actually think that they are bad, useless and good-for-nothing,
etc. And in that process, they might just end up killing themselves. However,
I’m not saying that everyone is that sensitive! Some people know how to deal
with the world, and those people are winners. But you never know who is a
sensitive person and who is not. So think what you speak.
It was going to be a very tough
decision to find who the legend out here in this post is. But as I came to the
end of this post, I realized that the legend is… rather, the legends are those
people who fight up against this cruel and judgmental society and turn out to
be winners!
That’s all for today! Keep reading!
